The world of relationships is a complicated one in the year 2024. The social media age has made dating more complicated than ever and old school, in-person, face-to-face meetups seem much less commonplace in comparison with time spent on dating apps.
Many people have sought out ‘spiritual teachers’ and coaches for the purpose of improving their dating life, and best-selling author Sehleana Aiyana, founder of the Rising Woman community, is one of them.
With the dark days of COVID-19 finally starting to wind down in June 2022, Aiyana took it upon herself to release the hardcover and audiobook ‘Becoming the One: Heal Your Past, Transform Your Relationship Patterns, and Come Home to Yourself.’
The book can be found on Amazon.com here or by clicking the picture above.
The following are my honest impressions after reading it for the first time.
An Honest, Heartfelt Guide for Personal and Relationship Growth
Aiyana’s book is, simply put, like nothing else I’ve ever read.
It takes the reader on a journey through their past relationship history, family relationships, personal goals and more. If you’re used to speaking with a therapist as I have done often since 2012, this book will feel like familiar territory from the first chapter on.
It promises a ‘deep dive’ into the roots of whatever problems have caused relationship issues in the past, are currently causing them, or may cause them in the future, with a spotlight on healing one’s self from the inside-out to become the ‘soulmate’ instead of attracting one outside of yourself.
Aiyana recommends ‘Becoming the One’ for anyone navigating a recent breakup of ‘feeling fed up with dating.’
She also recommends the book for ‘fans of self-help and self-improvement books.’
Additional Thoughts on ‘Becoming the One’ by Sheleana Aiyana
This book is an excellent read for anyone looking to heal from past relationship troubles and even traumas at home.
It provides common sense mental, emotional and spiritual tools for examining and healing stuck emotions and thoughts that could remain lodged inside of you from romantic and other personal relationships.
Aiyana’s book also serves as a window into the psyche of the modern dater, perhaps inadvertently providing a treasure trove of insight as to why so many people are being “ghosted” in their personal relationships from the perspective of the one doing the ghosting.
If you’re looking for a book that can help you to heal from the inside-out with an eye on attracting your ideal partner, however that situation may look or feel like to you, I can’t recommend this book enthusiastically enough.
For more information or to get a copy for yourself, visit this link.
Aiyana’s YouTube channel has over 23,000 subscribers and one of her videos on parenthood and relationship struggles from 2023 can be viewed below.
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Thanks for reading! Special thanks to Sheleana Aiyana for sending me a copy of this book to read and review. For information about her ‘Rising Woman’ six-week relationship anxiety healing program and her online community for women, check out her website here.
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